Part 3 of the 3-Part Conversations We Have to Have Series 

As we grow older, we’re gonna need help! 

We all reach an age where we stop being able to do everything on our own. In your case, that might be now, soon, or further down the road. Either way, it’s an important conversation to have. In this practical episode of the iRetire4Him Podcast, Jim and Bruce discuss experiences from their own lives.

Bruce talks about the conversations he’s currently having with his wife Judy about the help they now need and what help they might need in the future. Jim shares what he and wife Martha are living out now as the primary caregivers for his own 90 year-old parents. In both instances, they emphasize the fact that it’s OK to ask for help!

In the second segment of show 99, Bob Tiede gives a great explanation of when and why believers should retire. As the co-author of Leading with Questions and a team member of Leadership Devlopment at CRU, Bob often spends time with younger men, and he encourages other seniors to intentionally pour into the younger generations. Reach out to Bob if you’d be interested in coaching within CRU.

If you have more questions and ideas about these conversations we’ve been having on the podcast lately, let us know! You can send us a message on the Retirement Reformation Facebook page or email Jim@iWork4Him.com.

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Bob Tiede

Ministry: Leading with Questions

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#2 of 3-Part Series: In general, Americans have bought into the lie that retirement should be 30+ years of pure leisure. But that’s not a sustainable way of life! Retirement Reformation founder Bruce Bruinsma reflects on the example that God gives of 6 days of purpose and 1 day of rest. As retirees, we can still find the necessary rest and fun in retirement without trying to make rest and fun the driving factor during our retirement years.

Doug Hunter with Pinnacle Forum is 75 years old but nowhere near slowing down! He spends most of his time engaging with Christian leaders at Pinnacle Forum, to make a difference in the marketplace, but he also serves on several boards, sharing his wisdom and experience. He’s a shining example of living with purpose over leisure and encourages iRetire4Him Podcast listeners to ask God how He wants to use them.

Bruce also shares a bit more about their Oxygen for Life events that are taking place across the nation and Retirement Reformation’s goals for reaching as many retirees as possible with the message that you have purpose and God wants to use you as long as you have breath in your lungs!

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Doug Hunter

Ministry: Pinnacle Forum

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#1 of 3-Part Series: This conversation between Jim and Bruce (with special mid-segment guest, Mike Henry) is so vital for ALL seniors. Because your retirement shouldn’t be nothing. The American “dream” of retirement has misled too many retirees already, so we invite you to instead buy into the purpose that God has for you during your retirement years!

Join the conversation you have to have. Retirement Reformation offers tools and resources that address your retirement issues, doubts, and plans. Find more ways to be intentional as a Christian retiree. Some of the organizations Bruce mentioned in this episode that could use your help are:

Life Action

Bibles for the World

CAFO Network (Christian Alliance for Orphans)

Check out other partnerships on the Retirement Reformation website.

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Mike Henry

Ministry: Follower of One

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#5 of 5-Part Series: In this series you’ve seen just how detrimental isolation is – often leading to loneliness, addiction, divorce, and even bankruptcy. Well, suicide often branches from one or more of these five areas. Even scarier – studies show there’s been a 20% increase of suicide attempts in adults 85+ in the last few years and over one third of suicide deaths were 55 or older.

What’s the main warning sign? Isolation and loneliness. Now you can clearly see why the iRetire4Him Podcast is addressing the dangers of isolation.

The message of Retirement Reformation combats ideas of hopelessness: you’re unique and called by God specifically. That gives you purpose, so you can step into God’s preferred future for you.

Even though he “retired” from Christian radio at 54, God allowed mid-segment guest Gordon Marcy to start the Glorystone App, an online player used by Christian broadcasters and ministries. Gordon confesses himself that he doesn’t have a background in software, but he shows how even at retirement age God can use you to do something you’ve never dreamed of. Listen to his advice for you!

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Gordon Marcy

Ministry: Glorystone App

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#4 of 5-Part Series: Rising costs, credit cards, lack of budgeting, no conversations around money, stewardship issues – all reasons that can lead to filing for bankruptcy in retirement. Our finances need sanctification, too!

Bruce from the Retirement Reformation gives examples about the importance of having “wise advisors” to make financial decisions. And if we’re living in isolation, that’s hard! Seeking out this advice is part of the good stewardship that God has called each believer to. Managing money isn’t always easy, but God is ready to lead you in your financial decisions, if you’ll let Him.

In the second segment, we welcomed Dr. Mark Andrews to share about his organization Adoptive Family Resources, which he acknowledges has brought a great fulfillment to his life after having retired from family counseling.

How could retirees make a difference in foster and adoption ministry? Mark discusses a need for court appointed social workers (CASAS) and volunteers at foster and adoption organizations. Could you be a “wrap-around grandparent?”

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Dr. Mark Andrews

Ministry: Adoptive Family Resources

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#3 of 5-Part Series: In this episode, Pastor Gary Gilmore comes back for another segment to finish his talk on how God has been using him to help retired military members. We hear more about issues of isolation he’s seen as well as what can help.

So, how does isolation play into retirees getting divorced in their 60s, 70s, and even 80s? This is a question that Bruce Bruinsma of Retirement Reformation aims to answer in Part 3 of this series. He also helps to address other issues that result from divorce – at any age but especially for the older generation.

Just like Jim asks in this show: Where’s the HOPE in this conversation? Listen to find out! Also, be sure to listen and then reach out to us if you or someone you know helps with marriage counseling and retreats for seniors.

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Gary Gilmore

Ministry: Pastor, Retired Military Chaplain

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#2 of 5-Part Series: This current iRetire4Him Podcast series is all about the resulting “grays” that stem from isolation during retirement. Have you listened to the intro episode, Isolation Leads to Loneliness? If not, we recommend that you go back and listen to that Part 1 show, too.

Alcohol, drugs, and porn aren’t just for the young, and we’re now seeing more and more addiction to these things among seniors. So how does this lead to isolation? Because addictions create shame that causes one to isolate him or herself. But just like we highlighted last week, there’s HOPE for retirees that find themselves in addiction and isolation. Retirement Reformation isn’t a recovery program, but it does want to help retirees have purpose and hope for the future!

Pastor and former military chaplain Gary Gilmore shares about his work ministering in the military. He starts talking about his unique position of chaplain ministry and will follow up next episode discussing his current work with retired military members. Be sure to subscribe to iRetire4Him Podcast on your favorite podcast platform, or listen here online, to make sure you don’t miss an episode!

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Gary Gilmore

Ministry: Pastor, Retired Military Chaplain

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#1 of 5-Part Series: Oftentimes, the older we get, the more our world shrinks. What does this mean? Well, as more time passes, we lose more friends and loved ones. This can result in increased isolation. And that’s the focus of our whole “Dangers of Growing Gray” 5-part series. Isolation frequently leads to other issues, which is why we need to tackle it head on!

Today’s show revolves around isolation during our retirement years making us lonelier than ever before. And this isn’t just an opinion. Bruce Bruinsma from the Retirement Reformation and Jim discuss findings from the US Surgeon General about how loneliness is impacting our senior community. For example, did you know that it’s estimated that isolation and loneliness can be as detrimental to your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day?

Although isolation and loneliness plague each of us at times, there’s HOPE that the iRetire4Him Podcast wants to shine light on. Listen to the episode for more details, but here is some advice from Bruce on how to handle your loneliness:

-        Read Psalm 118.

-        Read the book of John.

-        Look around to see who you can help.

-        Learn about and reflect the fruit of the Spirit.

-        Use the Retirement Reformation Prayer Guide.

-        Start a Recreating Retirement small group workshop.

-        Join the Retirement Reformation Facebook group.

This is sure to be a wonderful series, so don’t forget to keep tuning in!

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Bobby Albert

Ministry: Values Driven Culture

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Future Retirement Reality, Bonus Segment: Good News!

What will retirement bring? Complexity, Chaos, and Change – Oh my!

This special bonus segment addresses the GOOD NEWS about a retirement filled with purpose. You look forward to retirement but worry about those 3 Cs, but as Bruce and Jim discuss, with the correct focus, the goodness and fruitfulness of our retirement years can outshine any scheme of the devil.

Don’t forget to check out the many resources that Retirement Reformation offers to plan out your fruitful and purposeful retirement!

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#3 of 3-Part Series: Change is a part of life, but it can hit hard and often during retirement. It just adds to the complexity and chaos that are realities of retirement. But as Bruce states: “knowing what is true and knowing what is coming allows us to make better decisions.”

How do you handle change? Do you see it as a danger or as an opportunity? Change is inevitable, however, planning your retirement wisely is a tremendous help. That’s where Retirement Reformation steps in! Take advantage of all their online resources (website link below).

The interview with Pat Riley, this show’s mid-segment guest, is extra special as he’s the father of iRetire4Him Podcast’s producer, Todd Riley. His testimony shows that retirement isn’t the end, especially when you’re open to God’s leading in your life.

“As long as you’re alive, God’s not done with you!” - Pat Riley

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Mid-Segment Special Guest: Patrick W. Riley Sr.

Ministry: Veteran, Pastor, Camp Administrator

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